Buddhism is one of the world’s largest religions, with more than 520 million followers around the globe.
So, I wanted to learn more about Buddhism and compare it to my religion: Christianity. What sets it apart? It is grounded in reality? Here is what I learned about what Buddhists believe.
HISTORY OF BUDDHISM
The faith was founded by Siddhartha Guatama Buddha. He was a man born into a royal Nepal family around 600 B.C. According to scholars, Buddha lived a luxurious lifestyle. He had parents who wished to protect him from the world, so he rarely encountered actual pain and suffering.
But that all changed when Buddha saw visions of a sick man, an old man, and a corpse. He had another vision, one of a peaceful monk. This changed his life, and he decided to give up his riches to pursue enlightenment.
WHAT BUDDHISTS BELIEVE
Buddhists believe in the “Four Noble Truths,” which include 1) Life is suffering, 2) Suffering is a consequence of desire, 3) Losing desires will help eliminate suffering, and 4) Desire can be eliminated through the “Eightfold Path.” The Eightfold Path consists of attitudes and actions that can help people rid themselves of their desires.
The elements of the Eightfold Path supposedly help the Buddhist reach Nirvana, which is described as a “transcendent” state where there is no suffering, desire, sense of self, and so on. It’s the final goal of Buddhism.
The Eightfold Path includes right views, intention, speech, action, livelihood, effort, mindfulness, and concentration. It is believed that, should a Buddhist follow these principals, they will reach Nirvana.
It is also important to include that Buddhists share similar views to Hinduism. These views include reincarnation, or the belief that you are reborn as someone or something else after you die; karma, or the idea that good and evil actions will yield a certain consequence; meditation; temple worship; and Nirvana.
WHAT CHRISTIANS BELIEVE
Christians believe that God sent His son, or a part of Himself, down to Earth in the flesh to grow up, teach and preach His word, die on a cross to cover the sins of the world, rise from the dead after conquering hell, and ascend back into Heaven after appearing to more than 500 people as the risen Christ.
Christians believe that Jesus claimed to be God in the flesh, and they believe that no amount of good that you do can get you to Heaven. It is God’s sacrifice of Jesus on the cross that makes Heaven a possibility for everyone.
Christians also believe that everyone is born into sin and the world is sinful. However, thanks to the free gift of salvation, God’s spirit can change you. Although you will still mess up and sin, God forgives those who are sincere.
Christians believe that, when they die, they will go to Heaven and God will judge those who did not know Jesus righteously. Those who lived apart from God will not go to Heaven, but will spend an eternity separate from Him.
CHRISTIANITY VS. BUDDHISM
From my experience of life, no one is good. Even people who donate to the poor or volunteer can be some of the most wicked people on the face of the Earth. I don’t have enough faith in humanity to believe that if we all stopped feeling desire, we would achieve enlightenment.
Overall, while I respect Buddha for some of his principals, I can’t be Buddhist because I know I’m not reliable; there must be a moral law giver to define “right views;” and, probably most importantly to me, there is no joy in Buddhism. It’s all about limiting and cutting off your joy so you can be enlightened. That doesn’t sound like the type of life God wants us to live.
“Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full.” - John 16:24
“Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” - 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
“This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”
These are a few of the almost 200 mentions of joy in the Bible. Will you have joy? Expand the details at the bottom of this page to learn how you can accept Jesus as your personal savior! Thanks for reading and I hope this clarified a bit about each religion to help you on your journey. Those who seek God will find Him!
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*THIS ARTICLE CONTAINS NO HATE TO PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY AS MUSLIM, BUT ONLY COMPARES
If you aren't sure about what the Christian faith is exactly, I want to give a brief summary.
Christians believe in God the father, God the son (Jesus), and God the Holy Spirit. God is one being, but he is split into three parts of himself: the father, the son, and the Holy Spirit.
Christians believe that God came down in the form of a man named Jesus. While on earth, He never sinned, taught in God's name, and was crucified. It is this crucifixion that acted similarly to Old Testament sacrifices to atone for sins. He conquered death and rose from the grave, appeared to tons of people, and then ascended into Heaven.
Christians are people who have accepted Jesus'
WHAT TO MUSLIMS BELIEVE?
The faith is championed by Muhammad who is a prophet of Allah (God). Out of respect for the beliefs that some Muslims hold, I will not insert a photo depiction of Muhammad.
Muslims also believe that there is no guarantee of Heaven. You must live right, pray a certain number of times a day, give alms to the poor, take a trip to Mecca, and more.
So why do I believe in the trinity? Why am I a Christian? Here are things I believe show me that Christianity is the right way to go. As always, be sure to learn all of this for yourself. I want to make clear that I will be using sources from Muslim holy books and trusted sources.
GOD'S WARNING FULFILLED
To begin, here is God's warning:
"And if he [Muhammad] had made up about Us some [false] sayings, We would have seized him by the right hand; Then We would have cut form him the Aorta"
Quran, Surah 69:44-46
Quick biology lesson, your aorta, as you can see in the depiction to the right, is the main roadway to the heart. Severing it would result in death, a painful one at that.
OK, so there was the warning, plain as day. This is obviously a pretty terrible way to dye, and a really painful one at that. So where is this fulfilled?
Muhammad died from poison. A Jewish woman made him a meal and poisoned it. She did this after her family was killed by Muhammad and his men. She thought that it would be a sign that he was the true prophet of God if he lived. If he died, however, she thought it would be a clear sign that he was not.
But it is what he says after being poisoned that drove this home to me:
"The Prophet in his ailment in which he died, used to say, "O Aishah! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison." - Sahih al-Bukhari 4428
"Umm Bishar said to the Prophet during the sickness of which he died: What do you think about your illness, Apostle of Allah? I do not think about the illness of my son except the poisoned sheep of which he had eaten with you at Khaibar. The Prophet said: And I do not think about my illness except that. This is the time when it cut of my aorta." -Sunan Abu Dawud 4449
"The Messenger of God said during the illness from which he died - the mother of Bishr b. al-Bara had come in to visit him - "Umm Bishr, at this very moment I feel my aorta being severed because of the food I ate with your son at Khaybar." - At-Tabari p. 124
MUHAMMAD VS. JESUS
To begin, Jesus lived a sinless life. He abhorred violence.
"Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword." - Matthew 26:52
Next, Jesus claimed to be God in humans form and performed miracles as such. Muhammad claimed to be a messenger that had God's revelation revealed to him in private.
Another stark difference is the treatment of women. It is said that Muhammad's wife Aisha was only 6 years old when he married her. But she wasn't the only one. He had three wives. Jesus, who upheld Jewish beliefs, believed in marrying one wife and loving her alone.
I think I will make this a series that highlights some of the major religions. Let me know what you think. I am open to discussion. I hope that I approached this delicately enough to be respectful while presenting the facts.
I'd like to credit Acts17Apologetics on YouTube who dug up most of this. Feel free to look up "Who Killed Muhammad?" on YouTube.
In the United States at least, a lot of emphasis is put on merit. If you do well in class, you get into a good college. If you donate a bunch of money, you can get a building named after you. If you’re really smart or do enough good, you might even be rewarded with a Nobel Peace Prize.
But scrap all of that and keep reading. I want to tell you about something that is really difficult to understand. It’s the problem of sin.
WHAT IS SIN, EXACTLY?
Some of the old hymns that we sing in church may make it out like Christians and sinners aren’t the same thing. I’m sure that the writers were more trying to communicate that we sin less when we become Christians, but that might not be true wither.
The truth is that Christians and non-Christians alike sin every day. The difference is our response to sin. As a Christian, I can tell you that I recognize my sin much more than I did when I was not a Christian or when I had drifted away from God.
For example, if I say something bad about someone, or even think something bad about someone, I feel as though I did wrong. Sometimes it takes me a while, sometimes I feel this immediately. When I wasn’t a Christian or when I drifted away from God, I said awful things about people all the time and didn’t really care.
I didn’t realize that I was effectively disrespecting God’s creation: another human.
The beauty of being a Christian is that, if you are sincere, God forgives your sins. By that I mean that you can’t just go around each and every day pushing over old ladies knowing that God “will” forgive you. In essence, you can’t take advantage of God’s forgiveness because that inherently shows that you don’t respect his authority and forgiving nature anyway.
CHRISTIANS AND SIN
When talking to a friend about Christianity, it is likely that the atrocities associated with the Crusades will come up.
If you don’t know much about the Crusades, the important things you should know for this blog is that the Crusades were, according to History.com, a “series of religious wars between Christians and Muslims started primarily to secure control of holy sites considered sacred by both groups.”
The other important thing you should know is that the Crusades were very bloody and resulted in the horrific deaths of many innocent men, women, and children.
As humans, we are all exposed to sin, even Christians. With God on our side and Jesus in our hearts, we are able to feed the good which in turn hopefully will outweigh the sin and badness of life. But we still mess up.
THE HARD PILL TO SWALLOW
The hard pill to swallow is that sin is sin. It’s all sin and it is all bad in God’s eyes. When you see a criminal holed up in a jail cell for assault, you may look at him and say “I am better than he is.” While you are better in merit (i.e. your naughty list is a lot shorter than his), you are still a sinner.
Until you become a Christian, you look the same to God. Even as a Christian, you still look like a sinner to God. It is because Jesus bled and died for you that you are even worthy of God’s love and forgiveness. That’s why Jesus is the key.
In the old days, sacrifices were made to God to atone for sins. The sacrifice would be something like a lamb or sometimes it would be things like fruit. Of course, faith in God was also very important. You have people like Job and Sarah who both lived on faith that God would protect them or fulfil his promise to them. They let God take the wheel in their life.
But God did something amazing. He decided that, rather than have animals be sacrificed to him, he would come down in human form as his son, Jesus, to live a sinless life, preach about God’s love and forgiveness, clarify some of the miscommunications in the church, die on a cross without having done any wrong, and rise from the dead three days later.
This sacrifice is effectively God shedding his own blood to cover the sins of everyone, should they believe on him and Jesus, who gave the sacrifice.
WHAT I WANT TO SAY TO NON-CHRISTIANS
I want to tell you that you and I, we are physically and mentally the same. We are both tempted to sin, we both commit sin, we both can feel guilty of our sin. Nowhere in the Bible does it say I am better than you. On the contrary, I am just a beggar who has found bread. Now I want to share it with you.
Apart from Christ, we are the same. But the good news is, if anything I said in the previous paragraph gives you longing, Christ wants to be with you, not apart from you. God is not willing that any should perish. But when we choose to live outside of His will and His guidance, He isn’t going to force us to spend an eternity with Him. He respects our free will too much to force anything like that on anyone. He even partially limited his will and power to give us the power to choose Him. That’s because love isn’t love if it is programmed into us like software. Love has to be a free decision.
He made that decision for us at creation and on the cross, will you make the decision to love Him?
But, for the majority of Christians, it is believed that science should be used to understand the world that God made for us. Science helps us produce medicine, find cures to diseases, understand how the world works, and so much more.
Non-Christians and atheists will always say that they don't believe in anything, or they aren't really sure what to believe. The only problem with that statement is that it's a lie.
Everyone on the face of this Earth believes in something. For Christians, we believe that Christ came down to Earth to live, teach, and die for our sins only to conquer death and rise from the grave. Crazy right? A lot of people greet the Christian belief with laughs and mockery because rising from the dead isn't necessarily an every day occurrence.
If you're not living for Christ, maybe you are living for pleasure. Maybe you're living for family and friends. Regardless, there is something that you believe in. For a lot of people, it's science.
WHY IS SCIENCE SO ALLURING?
For me, as I said, science is alluring because it helps me see and better understand God's creation. I feel like Johannes Kepler, a famous astronomer and Christian who uttered powerful words about discovering more about the world through science.
SO, WHAT IS THE PHILOSOPHY OF SCIENCE?
So, the philosophy of science is putting your faith in the act of science to bring about life out of nothing. In this case, people use science to answer questions about existence and why we are here.
A lot of people say it's pretty crazy to believe that an all-knowing, all-powerful being created the Earth and people and everything we see around us. But, is it all that far-fetched when compared to the philosophy of science?
The philosophy of science credits the Big Bang with creating life out of nothing, while Christianity credits a being with a mind and character with the creation of life and everything around us. Do this exercise and you'll see why I feel the philosophy of science isn't the way to go:
Say you are walking on the beach and you see John loves Jane written in the sand. Wouldn't you think I was crazy if I said the waves produced that? How often have you seen a meal come together on it's own? Isn't there a cook? Have you ever seen a hurricane pick up what it needs and build a house? The answer to that is no.
You never see a creation without a creator. It's completely unobservable in our every day lives. You never see a creation coming out of nothing, so how can we believe that life came out of nothing? Life comes from life in every instance we can observe. A child comes from his mother, a flower comes from a seed, etc. You get the picture.
THAT IS WHY I CAN'T RELY ON SCIENCE AS PHILOSOPHY
To me, using science to explain origin is irrational. I can't believe that something comes from nothing. I've never observed that. I also believe that, if my atheist and agnostic friends really looked at this scenario and thought as logically as they do when they question Christians about God and Jesus, they too would see that it is much more logical to think God created everything than it is to believe that an explosion jolted DNA into just the right place to form complex creatures.
After doing all of that leg work, one would hope that some of those visits would result in those same people we visit turning up at the church for worship services.
Taking attendance is useful for a few things. Of course, it is good to know how many people have visited the church for posterity’s sake. Also, forgive me because I am rather young and not well-versed in laws and non-profit-status rules, but churches may also need to take attendance to remain in the non-profit status.
But, for the most part, I find most churches (or people in churches keeping a mental note on who is in attendance and who is not) are keeping attendance for an entirely wrong reason. Here are three reasons I believe you should stop taking attendance at church:
IT ISN’T REALLY ABOUT THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE
At this point, I want to remind everyone that salvation is a personal choice. While it is our duty to live out our lives as God intends and the way Jesus would live, we can’t bestow salvation upon someone else. All we can do is witness, live right, and pray for them.
A lot of churches may be focused on the size of the crowd because they are worried about money. But, again, if we turn to God’s word, we find an answer for that:
“Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?”
Only a month before I was set to marry my husband, he was laid off from his job. That meant he couldn’t help me pay for our wedding or any of the bills. But I knew that God wanted me to marry him. I knew that this was just a road bump put in place by the enemy. And God stretched my dollars for a few weeks until my husband found work again. He does it time and time again.
The same is true for churches. God will make a way to keep the lights on. That shouldn’t be the focus of coming together to worship. Again, we turn to God’s word for guidance on this:
“For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”
God can convict your heart in a tent in the woods just as well as He can convict you in the pew of a church. He is all powerful and all knowing, and you can praise, worship, and learn more about him even if the light bill isn’t paid. Take comfort in knowing that.
NUMBERS COULD BECOME YOUR NEW WORSHIP
Weird, right? But think about that idol worship sermon you sat through. The pastor probably said something along the lines of “if you become obsessed with someone or something, it can easily become your God.”
Taking attendance can do this to your church because, instead of focusing on God and spreading the message of Jesus Christ, your church may begin focusing on the numbers, attendance, and who is and is not sitting in the pews.
Even if your church has a secretary or deacon who is in charge of these matters, they can also become obsessed with counting heads instead of counting their blessings. This will cause the head counter to lose interest in the sermon and miss the opportunity to learn from Christ through God’s word.
IT CAN TURN MORE PEOPLE AWAY
Let’s talk about visitors first, or people who have been coming to your church but haven’t joined yet. If they see that you are constantly approaching them with “who, what, when, where, why,” they will start to feel suffocated and might wonder why the church has to know every little thing going on in their life. If they aren’t even a Christian yet, this could be something that turns them away from your church and maybe all churches in general.
Again, this is their choice, but you can have a hand in it. Christians often talk about having a hand in someone’s journey to salvation and being used by God. Christians are still human and can still cause their fellow man to stumble. It is important to be mindful of nosiness and how it may come off to potential church members.
For people who are already part of your church, it is important to keep in mind that no one knows that person’s heart but God. Not even their family or spouse! It is also important to keep in mind that most people only “answer” to their spouses and their parents. You don’t know if they are visiting another church, visiting family, or on vacation. You don’t know if they are at home reading their bibles, listening or reading devotions every day, etc. It can be easy to judge based off of what you know, but many people’s lives are like icebergs. You only see what they want you to see.
*every hypocritical Christian who reads this title*
Oh, look at her. She's writing a blog about what Christians should stop doing. She's probably the worst Christian in the world.
I posted a blog in September of last year called "The Devil and his old tricks: Satan's tactics in the Garden and how he still uses them today." In this post, I talked about how Adam and Eve seemingly shifted blame around in an attempt to convince God that it wasn't their fault that they had eaten of the tree He told them to avoid. I discussed that the two never really wanted to take the fall for what they did. Although they were ultimately wrong for their choice, it wasn't solely their fault. The same goes for church-goers who hurt someone so badly that they don't want to go to church anymore.
Ultimately, they are making the choice and will have to answer for that choice, but that doesn't mean they weren't influenced. The devil whispers among Christians just as much if not more than the amount he whispers around non-believers.
This blog post is an attempt to expose some of the things we Christians do that turn people, Christians and non-Christians alike, away from the faith and from the church faster than greased lightning. Of course, it is in human nature to fail, but we shouldn't harm someone and neglect to address what we did wrong. In this blog, I'm just trying to show you what you can do to stop the vicious cycle. Take it for what it is for you.
In order to be transparent and fair, I want to let my readers know that I've yet to meet one Christian, including myself, who hasn't been guilty of one of these things at least once in their faith journey. This is the pot calling the kettle black. But I know my problems, and I know this is a widespread issue. So, here is the list:
Empty "I'm Praying For You's"
Telling someone "I'm praying for you" when you aren't can give them false hope and a false sense of security. Sure, they will never know that you're lying. But it is a lie after all. Also, the Bible says:
"But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him." - I John 2:5
Personally, when I say "I'm praying for you," it is often when tragedy strikes. Tragedies like terrorist attacks, deaths in the family, and more. But, I do admit that I still say it on occasion and, for whatever reason, don't include it in my prayers from time to time.
It is often said that the words "I love you" have lost their power because it is used when it isn't meant. We don't want "I'm praying for you" to lose its power and meaning because it is used when it isn't meant.
Approaching a situation with judgement before approaching it with compassion
But one of the most frustrating things a Christian or even a non-Christian deals with are those who come at a person's situation with judgement before compassion.
PAUSE: THE BIBLE DOESN'T SAY NOT TO JUDGE SOMEONE. GOD GIVES US THE POWER TO USE OUR JUDGEMENT TO HELP OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS. MAYBE OUR EARTHLY JUDGEMENT CAN HELP SOMEONE CHANGE BEFORE GOD JUDGES THEM. THE BIBLE DOES SAY THAT YOU SHOULD NOT JUDGE HYPOCRITICALLY.
"Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye." - Matthew 7:4-5
If we look at the above verses, you can tell that Jesus was very strict and hard on the Pharisees because they were hypocritical. It didn't matter to Jesus that it was Sunday and He and His disciples were picking food for the poor. Jesus approached everything with compassion. As Christians, we try to live our lives like Jesus. We will never be able to because we are human, but we should try each day to be as compassionate as Jesus.
Now, if we approach a situation with compassion several times and it is something someone could change but chooses not to, go ahead and approach the situation with sternness. But until then, be like Jesus and be compassionate.
Using the phrase "Christians are humans too."
If someone hears another Christian gossiping about them, the "I'm still human" phrase is thrown around more than beach balls at high school graduations. When something happens in a church and someone decides to leave that church to find one that may have less issues, the "I'm still human" card gets thrown on the table pretty quickly.
We are fortunate that God is forgiving thanks to His son's sacrifice. Remember this verse when you start to use the "I'm still human" line:
"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new." - II corinthians 5:17
Treat someone differently because of their past mistakes
But when people learn the darkness that you've put behind you that still impacts you now, they tend to put a label on you, even in the church.
Now, I don't want anyone I know to be overly offended, but I did feel a lot different as the daughter of a divorcee than the average child felt in my home church. There was something missing there. I know, too, that many people who have decided to have a child out of wedlock are treated differently as well. Like second-class Christians.
But we know from the good book that we are all sinners, we are all unworthy, no matter what we've done or where we've come from or who we've been. The reality is, when you're treated differently by Christians because of something in your past, in can affect your future as a Christian. For some, it is beneficial. It helps them to really dig in the word and find meaning that really helps them in life. For others, they fall away from the faith and turn back to their ways, yet Christians still blame them.
Having a support system in crucial. Although we rely on God, He sends us earthly people we can rely on as well. We see what the absence of a good support system can do to someone. As a Christian, you don't have to support sinful behavior to support the sinner. God says to love the sinner and hate the sin.
Insist that anger is wrong
Well, anger is a human emotion God gave us in order to process the actions of others. So many pastors and religious leaders tell those who are angered or hurt by the actions of those in their church or community that approaching it with anger isn't the right thing to do.
This can't be further from the truth, so long as the anger is righteous.
What do I mean by that? I mean that so long as your anger has Biblical roots, you have the right to be angry. For example, if you find some discrepancies with church funds that point to some sort of financial abuse, or if the church is overrun with gossip and pettiness, you have the right to be righteously angry.
But where do we find evidence that this is OK? I point to Jesus in the temple.
"And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves, And said unto them, It is written, My house shall be called the house of prayer; but ye have made it a den of thieves." - Matthew 21:12-13
Jesus, by Biblical definition, was a sinless man. By that information, we know that his anger here was righteous. He was so upset that He flipped the tables. He then gave an explanation of why He was angry. That explanation was founded in Biblical truths.
So yes, you as a Christian can be angry if it is for the right reason. You have a right to express your frustrations with issues going on within your church or with fellow Christians. However, you shouldn't let this anger consume you, and you shouldn't let it be a driving force in your decision-making process.
I didn't write this post to point fingers or to make you or anyone else feel bad (although I might argue that God is trying to tell you something if you think this is about you). As I said before, I'm just as guilty of these as the next Christian. I want to use our imperfections to shine light on what can be changed to help people in the way WE can so God can help them in the way ONLY He can.
What is your mission for 2018? My mission is to cut down on these things so I can be less of a distraction to someone in or out of the Christian community. I want to be light the way, not be a stumbling block to others.
I was faced with a few dilemmas. The first was that I couldn't get to work. I felt the tire lowering steadily. It wasn't a problem I could fix by pumping air into it. There was a hole in the tire, and I knew I couldn't make it to work. My second was that I didn't think I had enough money for a tire. Jonathan (my husband) came home and inspected it, noticing it was indeed flat. I called to see how much a tire would be and it looked like I had just enough. But, since Jonathan had already come back to the house, I asked him to drop me off and pick me up from work.
At first, I sat there crying. Any onlooker would have thought that this minor inconvenience ruined my life. I was mostly upset because it was my fault that the tire had busted. What's worse is that Jonathan had told me repeatedly that, one day, continuing to drive my car over the sewer grate would result in a messed up tire. He was right, but I kept doing it. I was also upset because, on the recommendation of my father-in-law, I had just replaced the tire before we made the trip down to visit family at Thanksgiving.
Jonathan helped me into his car. His car is nice, but it is lower to the grown than my vehicle, a cute little Kia Soul (yes the hamster car). At first, I was telling him how much of an idiot I felt like. He kept insisting I wasn't. I took out my phone, as most people my age do, and went to Snapchat to update my friends about what was going on. I started laughing while I told the story. God helped me find laughter in the situation.
I remember looking at Jonathan and saying, "you know, I was actually wishing that God had protected me from something. Like maybe there was a crash or my car was going to explode." He looked at me and said "that's awful." It didn't dampen the mood. I replied. "I know, I'm sorry." And we went about the rest of our trip to my job. By the time I got out of the car, I was crying from all of the laughing we did. Jonathan and I are a goofy couple. One of my favorite things about him is his humor. I struggle, mostly in high-stress moments of life, with anxiety, and I used to have issues with depression. I whole-heartedly believe that God sent Jonathan for me. I know that's cheesy, but I've only met a few people who could make me happy when I'm sad, and only one other person, my best friend Jeremy, who could make me laugh when I feel completely broken.
My point in this post is to say this: God can pick us up when we are down through the people who He has sent to love us. I also took a great deal out of the example about Jonathan telling me time and time again not to do what I did. But, even when I did it and it put a wrench in what I had planned, he still came to me, helped me, and lifted my spirits. I saw God all over him this morning. He could have been angry about coming home when work was about to start, and he could have scolded me about the situation, filling my ears with "I told you so's."
God is the same way, but obviously better because He is perfect and just. His son watched people make mistakes He warned against while on Earth, but He still loved them and would have been there to help them in their time of need. So now, instead of worrying about my tire, I have this soft, warm, fuzzy feeling deep in my heart and I know that, no matter the circumstance, God will not only solve the issue, He can also use people in your life to lift your spirits.
Here's a little video from this morning that I took on Snapchat. What a blessing to have this God-sent man in my life!
Naturally, he was worried it had something to do with his heart. But then he told me something I didn't know. He said "it could be my anxiety. I have really bad anxiety, just in case you have it."
I was baffled, but I didn't let my voice make it seem like I was. You see, when I was still a baby, my parents were divorced. Subsequently, I spent most of my time with my mom. My dad had weekend visitations. I never realized that he was anxious.
I myself has struggled with anxiety probably all my life, but most noticeably in the past 5 years. A few articles seem to state that anxiety could be genetic, but no one is really sure.
A lot of religious people seem to think that anxiety just goes away when you put your faith in Christ. While it does feel a lot better to suffer with it under Christ, it still doesn't go away. That is because something in my brain tells me to overthink. I've literally had moments when I've just been sitting down laughing with my friends. I've had to get up, go to my room, and just sit there. I feel overcome with panic, specifically during rough patches in my life.
This all got a little better when I finally accepted Christ in my life. However, it didn't go away. I still find myself overthinking things to the point where I think I've offended someone and I really haven't. I've also come to the point where I get really defensive when someone seems to make me feel unintelligent or wrong for something I have no business feeling wrong for.
When people do that to me, I always want to cut them off. I always want to act differently around them. I want to be short with them and just let them have their way. But I find that, interestingly, I persist. Even if I feel like I've embarrassed myself or I feel like what someone did to me was wrong, I can't seem to just walk away.
Let me give you a further example. Let's say you used to be a part of a group or organization before you left your location. About a year or two later you come back to your location and try to be a part of or help the group that you were a part of before you leave. Each time you reach out to them with sincere advice or offer to do something, it isn't accepted, but it also isn't denied. You start to feel like they never take you up on your offer so you'll just stop offering to help.
But then you realize you can't do it. Even if you don't have a strong bond to the group or don't know some people in the group, you find that you can't not offer to help.
I sometimes hate that I have this trait, but I chalk it up to not fulfilling the lust of the flesh. And the crazy thing is, you can ask anyone who was in my life a few years ago and they would tell you that I could walk away from someone who wronged me at the drop of a hat. But I have NO CONTROL OVER THIS. Does anyone else have this trait?
"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new." - II Corinthians 5:17
I've always wondered if this trait is present because I have Christ in my life. I wonder if it is His persistent spirit living inside of me that refuses to give up on people no matter how hard I want to try to avoid and walk away from people who wrong me.
Remember the Gospel? Jesus forgave those who were literally killing Him as He spoke. The people who He could have given up on are the same people He asked God to forgive because they didn't know what they were doing.
What an amazing theory.
CHRISTIAN: We know what we are supposed to do because God set forth moral law in the Bible. That means that morals are clearly defined in God's word and we are to abide by what has been set forth.
NON-BELIEVER: I disagree. We base our morals on what society thinks is right at the time. These morals explain why no one batted an eye at the holocaust in Germany, and why no one cared about slavery or segregation in America. Our morals have changed over time, so they can't be defined. They are relative.
MORALITY ISN'T RELATIVE UNLESS YOU'RE WILLING TO ADMIT THAT SOCIETALLY-DEFINED BAD ACTIONS ARE JUST AS MORAL AS SOCIETALLY-DEFINED GOOD ACTIONS.
OUTLIERS OF RELATIVE MORALS
That was actually an argument given at the Nuremberg Trials where Nazis were held accountable for killing millions of Jews and other non-arians. One of the defense lawyers said that those involved said they were doing what they were told to do and that no one had the right to tell Nazis that they couldn't do what they did.
But one things many forget are the outliers in these situations. For example, think of the several non-Jewish residents who helped Jewish people they had employed or who had employed them. There are so many stories involving those who knew that what was happening was wrong, and they chose to risk their lives to help.
The same with slavery and segregation. So many people who were largely unaffected by slavery, mainly whites who could have gone on letting it happen, took a stand to say "this person, even though he has darker skin than mine, is worth just as much as I am. I will fight for them."
These outliers go to show there are two sides to this coin. There are people who say society formed their morals and people who know that there is some higher moral law that they answer to.
Can you really live it out?
Think of it this way: You come up to a grandmother with a walker who is trying to cross the street. You have a couple of options. You can help her across, you can ignore her, or you can do something terrible like steal from her or knock her over in the middle of the street and leave her there.
Most everyone, aside from perhaps a sociopath or psychopath would either let her cross on her own or help her. But, by saying that morals are relative, you are saying that no matter what someone choses to do, you can't really argue with it because there is no certainty of morally right or wrong actions. You get to decide what is moral. If someone knocks the granny over and steals her rent money, that is equally as moral as helping her across the street.
Can you really live that out?
Morals in the Bible
Other moral issues in the Bible include disrespecting your parents, adultery, incest, and so on.
Most non-believers claim it is morally right because they wouldn't want it done to them.
But so what? Just because you don't do it doesn't mean someone else won't. When someone steals from you or kills your relative, would you say "I wouldn't want it done to me so that was wrong?" No, you would want justice because you place innate value on human life, which is another issue I will cover in a future blog.
Just as much so, you would never have someone steal something or kill your loved one and say "well, it's OK because morality is relative. Most people wouldn't do that, so you can't say that morality is relative if you aren't living like it is. That's intellectual dishonesty.
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For example, we tend to become pretty angry when someone points out our flaws. This is a natural defense we are all born with. It stinks to be called to the floor for what we've done wrong, and we've all been called to the floor for something or other.
I've always been a pretty stubborn person, and I admittedly get angry when I shouldn't. But, I've found that recently, more often than not, I get angry when people do things that contradict the Bible. I get angry when people accuse others of things without knowing the full situation. I get angry when people consistently try to use the church their own gain and personal agenda. I'm sure you get angry at these things, too.
When someone tells me that being angry is always wrong, I always want to point them to one particular verse in the Bible, although there are several that back up this claim. Here is the verse:
"Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath."
This verse is nestled between the aforementioned.
There are several other verses that point to righteous anger, but I will cover some of them later. I want to share with you what I believe righteous anger to be.
As Christians, we are to live our lives always trying to do what Jesus would have done. If you lived in the 90s like I did, you would remember the popularity of WWJD bracelets. Everyone at church had one! They were to serve as a visual reminder that we should try to live our lives like Jesus.
As Christians, we are to put off the things Paul told the Ephesians to put off: lying, stealing, spreading false information, etc. When we strive to live our lives like Christ, we are striving to help the poor, share the gospel, and love our enemies. This is what we are to live by.
In my opinion, righteous anger is when we see these things, or anything the Bible says we should be doing or shouldn't be doing, being neglected or abused by anyone, believer or non-believer. Of course, it is a bit hypocritical if you do the same thing that you get angry about, and I do believe that is a sin. We are to remove the beam from our eye so we can help our fellow man just as Jesus instructed.
To help you understand more clearly my thought process on righteous anger, here are some people who are or were rightfully, according to the word, righteously angry:
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
His life was cut short on April 4, 1968 when he was assassinated by James Earl Ray, a racist and former convict. But back then, who wasn't racist? Jim Crow laws, which separated white and black people in public and private spaces alike, had been abolished in 1964.
Dr. King has a righteous anger because the majority of the white population had been fed the lie for years that people of color were less important than white people.
In my own years, I've heard troubling justification for why white and black people shouldn't marry. I, being married myself to a black man who is a product of interracial marriage, never took these to heart.
"Ye shall keep my statutes. Thou shalt not let thy cattle gender with a diverse kind: thou shalt not sow thy field with mingled seed: neither shall a garment mingled of linen and woollen come upon thee."
In Exodus and Deuteronomy, there are verses about not marrying the Canaanites and other pagan people because they worshiped idols. In fact, the races of the Hebrews, Amorites, and Canaanites were relatively similar. While the Bible does NOT say not to marry outside of your race, it DOES say not to marry outside of your faith.
King recognized this and the several verses in the Old Testament were merely history and that the overall view of slavery and racial superiority being good cannot be found in the Bible. He was righteously angry and pointed this out on several occasions.
“God is not interested merely in the freedom of black men, and brown men, and yellow men; God is interested in the freedom of the whole human race.”
-Dr. Martin Luther King
Gies hid the Jewish family for two years, supplying them with her food and water rations and news from the outside. She was righteously angry about what was going on and decided to take up the burden of caring for her friends, risking her life to keep them safe.
Gies died in 2010 at the age of 100.
"I stand at the end of the long, long line of good Dutch people who did what I did or more – much more - during those dark and terrible times years ago, but always like yesterday in the hearts of those of us who bear witness. Never a day goes by that I do not think of what happened then." -Miep Gies
But we know that Jesus was righteously angry when He threw the money changers out of the temple.
"And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves..."
The money changers were using the house of God outside of its intended purpose. Because it went against the word of God, it was wrong and He had a righteous reason to be angry.
Important notes on righteous anger
These displays aren't sinful because they involve anger. They are only sinful if we continue to be angry about them. You may experience righteous anger too.
If someone of church authority thinks you aren't serving God when you are, or someone tries to tell you that the Bible says something it clearly doesn't, you have a right to be righteously angry. But you should do something about it.
Another good thing to remember is that you have to live your life for God. What is the use in trying to control someone else or hope they will be punished for their deeds. You continue to serve God. Don't let people's attitudes, words, or un-Biblical convince you to act otherwise. Remember that we are all sinners, even believers. We all make mistakes. However, if you do get un-Biblical advice, you should find another place to worship or point out why the advice is not Biblical to the giver.
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- Admit to God that you are a sinner
(Romans 3:23; Romans 6:23).
- Repent, turning away from your sin
(Acts 3:19; 1 John 1:9).
- Believe that Jesus is God's Son and accept God's gift of forgiveness from sin
(Romans 5:8; Acts 4:12; John 3:16; John 14:6; Ephesians 2:8-9; John 1:11-13).
- Confess your faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord
HOW TO GET TO HEAVEN
God is a perfect being who designed each and every one of us. He is sinless, good, and perfect. However, after Eve ate that apple, sin was released into the world and, as a result, everyone was born into sin and everyone does wrong. Only those without sin can enter into Heaven. But don't worry, Jesus came down to Earth and paid your sin debt do you could go to Heaven. Jesus is our salvation and offers us a way to Heaven. A way to live with Him forever. Here is what you have to do:
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